A Letter to My Son
July 28, 2020
A Letter to My Son
Proverbs 1:8
Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.
My son, do you know how much I love you? Do you know how I prayed for you even when you were in your mother’s womb and each day since? A father’s heart is to see his son grow up and be even more than he could ever be. He wants the best for him. He wants him to prosper and know the joys and richness of life. More than anything else, a father who loves the Lord will desire his son to grow up to embrace his own faith in Christ. A father of faith desires to birth that faith and relationship with Christ into his son.
Why is that so important? The father knows that in Christ are the issues of life, health, wealth and eternal salvation. If a father can impart to his son how rich he will be through a committed relationship with Christ then he will have left a legacy that he can be proud of. Your mother and I will have fulfilled one of the primary purposes for our being together. Malachi 2:15 says, “And did not God make [you and your wife] one [flesh]? Did not One make you and preserve your spirit alive? And why [did God make you two] one? Because He sought a godly offspring [from your union]. Therefore take heed to yourselves, and let no one deal treacherously and be faithless to the wife of his youth.” While Christian parents desire to live a godly example and be a light of salvation to others, there is no other soul more precious to them than you.
As a son grows up and matures he sees the parents he once perceived as so good with their faults and shortcomings. As a son grows into puberty and adolescence he often becomes quite full on himself and defiant and resentful of his parents. A father has had a few short years to try and instill the principles of life and godliness into his son. He has disciplined him to try and teach him responsibility, integrity and character. He knows he has made more mistakes than he would ever like to admit, but he prays that somehow, in spite of his shortcomings and failures God, by His grace, will make Himself so real to his son and that his son might now choose to make his parent’s faith his own.
As fathers we are often far less than perfect, but if this father doesn’t know anything else and if he doesn’t possess any other significant talents or abilities, the one thing that he does know and is fully committed to is that Christ is the answer to life. He prays that if His son gets nothing else from him, that he will get that. For a godly parent, there is no greater gift or reward than to see one’s children choosing the path of righteousness and walking in it. There are no richer moments than when we see them instilling and teaching their children the ways and the love of the Lord.
My son, I leave you with these words of instruction from Proverbs 4:20-27, “My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings. Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart For they [are] life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh. Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it [are] the issues of life. Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee. Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee. Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.” My son, I love you and only desire for you the richness and goodness of God’s grace and love.
Blessings,
#kent
Two Kinds of Seed
April 14, 2014
Two Kinds of Seed
Deuteronomy 22:9
You shall not sow your vineyard with two kinds of seed, or all the produce of the seed which you have sown and the increase of the vineyard will become defiled.
If our life is a vineyard, what kind of seed or seeds are we planting into it? I was thinking how mankind from the beginning has been influenced and followed after one of two different kind of seeds. In the Garden of Eden, in the book of Genesis there were two types of trees in the midst of the garden. One was the Tree of Life and the other the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. We have these same two trees in the midst of our soul, which one do we partake of. Which seed are you planting in your soul or do we plant a mixture of two different types of seed. Do we defile the fruit of our vineyard by planting both the seed of Spirit from the Tree of Life or the seed of the flesh from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good an Evil? God is saying you need to plant one or the other, but not both. Do we think that just because we plant the seed of Spirit in our lives it pleases God if we are also planting the seed of the flesh? Revelations 3:15-16 written to the Church of the Laodecians, the Lord speaks by the Spirit saying, “I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.”
The reason the Lord doesn’t want a mixture of the two different seeds is because it brings in compromise. It dilutes and perverts the effect of one seed. The mixture, God finds unacceptable.
As we survey the kingdom of heaven what do we see, but a mixture of flesh and Spirit? In Matthew 13:47-50 Jesus gives a parable, “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a net, that was cast into the sea, and gathered of every kind: Which, when it was full, they drew to shore, and sat down, and gathered the good into vessels, but cast the bad away. So shall it be at the end of the world: the angels shall come forth, and sever the wicked from among the just, And shall cast them into the furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth.” The truth is that there are two seeds planted in the vineyard of the Church and the vineyard of our own lives. We have been growing two seeds, but there is only one that is acceptable to the Lord. The one seed is a weed that brings spiritual death; the other is the seed of Life whose fruit brings life everlasting. The Lord is speaking that He only wants one type of seed planted in His vineyard. Isn’t He speaking to us to root out every seed and offspring that defiles our soul, so that there may be one kind of fruit, the fruit of the Spirit. Let us ask the Holy Spirit to help us to weed the garden of our souls, so that there may be purity restored in our hearts and only one kind of undefiled fruit, which the Holy Spirit wants to produce in us and through us.
Blessings,
kent