Where We Live

July 12, 2016

Romans 2:1-4, 17-24

1You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. 2Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such things is based on truth. 3So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment? 4Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness leads you toward repentance? 

Now you, if you call yourself a Jew; if you rely on the law and brag about your relationship to God; 18if you know his will and approve of what is superior because you are instructed by the law; 19if you are convinced that you are a guide for the blind, a light for those who are in the dark, 20an instructor of the foolish, a teacher of infants, because you have in the law the embodiment of knowledge and truth— 21you, then, who teach others, do you not teach yourself? You who preach against stealing, do you steal? 22You who say that people should not commit adultery, do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples? 23You who brag about the law, do you dishonor God by breaking the law? 24As it is written: “God’s name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.”

Where We Live

I believe the Holy Spirit wants to meddle in our hearts today where a lot of us have issues, but choose not to recognize and acknowledge them.  I see them in myself and I see them in my wife, so I know a lot of others have the same issues to one degree or another.  

The first part of Romans here is speaking to this attitude that was in these self-righteous Jewish people.  Let’s take the Jew out of it for a moment and insert Christians.  Have you ever known any judgmental Christians?  More importantly, have you ever recognized this quality in yourself?  If we are truly honest and real, how many of us hide behind our spirituality while we criticize and judge others?  We may call it discernment or spiritual insight.  We must justify sharing the faults of others as, “God showed me we need to pray for this person or situation.”  Even if He did He probably didn’t tell you that you needed to share it with every person in the bible study or the hair salon.  

Let’s get personal and just look within our own marriage relationships.  How often do we use spiritual credentials or intimidation, if you will, to manipulate and control one another?  How often are we critical, cutting and demeaning because we feel we are spiritually justified or superior?  We must realize we are often guilty of the very things that we condemn others for.  Instead of love and grace, we are rendering judgement and condemnation.  Instead of truly finding the other’s heart in a situation we have already made up our minds and rendered our judgements.  For the other person to give an opinion or advice is futile.  We don’t realize how much and many times we control others and judge others with our religious spirit.  

Sometimes it is passive-aggressive.  To my shame, I often find it is in the company of others that I want to expose my wife’s weaknesses or faults, even though it may be in the guise of jesting or fun.  I should be her greatest advocate, defender and protector.  I am being real, because I believe the Holy Spirit wants us to be real with ourselves today as we take a good hard look into our hearts and ask ourselves, “How guilty am I of this and how am I going to change it.”  Perhaps our spouse or others have identified this in us before and we didn’t want to hear or receive it.  Perhaps we only became offended, defensive or hurt instead of truly examining our heart in the light of the Holy Spirit and His Word.  

If we are to be life-givers, many of us must first deal with this religious spirit in us that communicates to others that we more righteousness, have more gifting, spend more time with God or have more revelation than someone else.  We don’t often realize how we speak down to others through our actions and words rather that humbling ourselves, getting under them and lifting them up.  If we truly are more spiritual this is the way that it will be manifested to others far more than our self-righteousness, our condescending tone and our judgmental words.  

If you consider this might be in you and you truly have a heart to get it right before the Lord and others then you need to humble yourself, put your emotions in check committing yourself to not getting emotional, angry or hurt.  The truth is something many of us have a struggle coming to terms with, especially when it deals with our issues.  Make a safe place for your close friends and loved ones to be able to share their true perception of you in these areas.  They are your mirror, if you have the guts to look into it.  They won’t go there if they believe they are going to set you off, or hurt you or offend you.  The truth is that many of us fit this description of Romans 2 and if we want to change it we have to be willing to face the truth about ourselves, repent of our judgements and other offenses in regards to how we deal with others, especially those of our own household.  God wants us to be free to communicate His love and grace in a way that truly expresses His character.  Verse 24 tells us that His name is blasphemed among the gentiles because we haven’t truly done this.  Sometimes it is blasphemed among those of our own household because have used God like a big ugly stick to beat up on those who didn’t line up with our thinking.  Our words and judgements have killed instead of giving life. Where we live is often judging and criticizing the very things that may still be in our own hearts. It is always so much easier seeing the faults in others before our own. Jesus reminds us in Luke 6:37,”Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.”

Holy Spirit, show us our true heart today and help us to get these things right before you and with others, in Jesus Name.  Amen.



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